A transition is triggered by something becoming problematic in your life or career. What was working before, doesn’t work so well for you, now, and that creates a growing level of discomfort.
And that discomfort isn’t fun. It’s inconvenient and tends to intensify, when you ignore it…because it is an activator. When you’re not happy, it activates you to look for a solution.
However, when the unhappiness is in your life or your career, the stakes are high! And that activation can quickly turn into feeling STUCK.
The pattern often goes something like this:
You are unhappy at home or at work.
You think of ways to solve the problem.
What follows are reasons why those solutions won’t work and they tend to be really believable.
You talk to friends and/or family and they’re well intentioned, but they are stakeholders and their ideas don’t really help you.
You start to feel like a broken record.
There are no new answers.
The process repeats.
I call it “looping.”
You are up against you, in a closed loop of fearful stories and limitations. The “shoulds” and the “can’ts” and the inner critic start ratcheting up. You start to feel stuck. And a little scared. And a little lonely.
All this can make you forget that you are a powerful, smart, problem solver and a badass creator of amazing things. And nobody needs that! Especially because it doesn’t have to go that way.
Let’s talk about how I can help you stop the “looping” and feeling stuck and find the clarity you are looking for to start moving forward again.