A transition is triggered by something becoming problematic in your life or career.
What was working before, doesn’t work so well for you, now, and that creates a growing level of discomfort and unhappiness. It’s uncomfortable. It can feel scary. And it tends to intensify over time.
Nothing gets our attention and motivates us to look for a solution, like unhappiness.
But the solution is not always readily evident.
And the more you try to solve it, the more STUCK you can feel!
The pattern often goes something like this:
You are unhappy at home or at work.
You think of ways to solve the problem.
What follows are reasons why those solutions won’t work and they tend to be really believable.
You talk to friends and/or family and they’re well intentioned, but they are stakeholders and their ideas don’t really help you.
You start to feel like a broken record.
There are no new answers.
The process repeats.
I call it “Looping.”
You are up against you, in a closed loop of worries and limitations. The “shoulds” and the “can’ts” and the inner critic starts ratcheting up and there doesn’t seem to be a good, clear path forward.
This is when having a Coach in your corner can really come in handy.
Having a person who is trained to help you go deeper into your own thinking, so you can unlock the solutions you need. A person who has the expertise and tools to help you clear out the fears and worries, so you can see forward again, with clarity.
A person like me.
Let’s talk about how I can help you get out of the looping and feelings of being stuck and find the clarity to start moving forward again.
